My father, the hero

Tomorrow, our country will be celebrating the 110th anniversary of Philippine Independence. And while everyone will be harping about Philippine heroes, let me tell you something about my own hero.

My hero never had a statue or monument built for him but to everyone who knew him, he is the epitome of kindness and generosity. Even now when he doesn't have much money, he always makes it a point to give a few hundred pesos to a friend in need. As a grandad, he sets aside a portion of his pension so he could buy milk, a toy, sometimes even just a huge bottle of distilled water to mix for his formula.

My hero did not serve in the government but he served the people in his community. He played a vital role in helping build a parish and not just a Church. By serving the people around him, he taught me how one can still be of service by just sharing your time and your efforts. No money is required -- just pure and total commitment to the cause.

My hero did not graduate from college nor did he gain honors or merits during his academic life. But he worked hard to send his three children to school -- the best schools that the country has to offer. Because of his sacrfices, one son is now working in the banking industry in the States, one is an architect and his only daughter is working as a marketing communications specialist for the world's leading law firm. Not bad for a college drop out.

My hero is not a professional writer nor a gifted public speaker but he never fails to impart valuable lessons to his children. Never fails to say the right words at the right time. Never fails to inspire and motivate his children to do good.

My hero will never go down in history as the best man that ever lived. But in my and my brothers' books, he is undoubtedly, the best father in the world.

Happy father's day, Dad. I don't say it often enough but yeah, I really, absolutely adore you and all you have done for me, my brothers, mom and most especially, Anton. We love you.

With my hero when I was barely a year old.